Life isn't about keeping score.
It's not about how many friends you have or how accepted you are.
It's not about if you have plans this weekend or if you're alone.
It's not about who you're dating, who you used to date, How many people you've dated, or if you haven't
been with anyone at all.
It's not about who you have kissed.
It's not about sex.
It's not about who your family is or how much money they have.
It's not about what kind of car you drive.
It's not about where you were sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or
what kind of music you listen to.
It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown or if your skin is too light or too dark.
It's not about how smart you are, how smart everybody else thinks you are, Or how smart standardized
tests say you are.
It's not about what clubs you're in or how good you are at your sport.
It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will accept the written
Life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon.
It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
It's about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why and who your judgments are spread to.
It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.
It's about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and spreading it.
But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way
that could have never occurred alone. Only you choose the way those hearts are affected and those choices are what life's